Moans and Pet Hates - Part 8

[joglynne]

Oh weenie, what a prat you have for a neighbour and how lucky you are to have the proof that your son did nothing wrong. I doubt if the Police will take any formal action against her at this stage as it wouldn't be cost effective.

[nashville]

Originally Posted by weenie

When will my neighbour learn that we don't break the law and we just want left alone!

Last Wednesday evening hubby allowed our son to reverse his car up our driveway while he was moving mine. Long story short we had a visit from the police stating that they had received a call saying that we were allowing our son who is 15 to drive on a public highway but were not willing to say who reported the incident. My eldest son took over as he is doing law and explained that our neighbour has a interdict against her, he showed them the dashcam footage in where they said that they were happy that no crime had been committed as this was clearly on private land, he also offered to them CCTV footage which they said was no need as they were satisfied that no crime had taken place. My eldest son said that he suspected that it was our neighbour who reported his brother and if his suspicion was correct would they please have a word with her as she knows this was private land due to the court case as both parties were in receipt of the surveys and he suggested the only crime that has been committed in his opinion was was by our neighbour and since he has given proof of our court case with our neighbour along with showing video footage, if his suspicion is correct and that she was the one who reported this incident surely this can be classed as wasteful employment of police time by knowingly making a false report since she knew this was our private property and not a public highway. When my son mentioned our neighbour again the police said so you have a disgruntled neighbour and my son said well you could say that but I can understand being upset at losing a court case and having to pay all costs but just because you have a interdict preventing you from harassing my parents that does not give you the right to use Police Scotland for harassment.

The police have since been at my neighbours house I can only hope that if it was her who reported my youngest son they take my eldest sons advice and explain to her about wasting police time and more importantly that she was the only one who committed a crime as she knew without doubt that this was private land as she has a copy of the land register (title deeds)

I think this proves our suspicion that this was once again my delightful neighbour trying to cause upset to us. I have asked my son if the police will now tell us if it was her that reported his brother and he said no but he is keeping a file just in case this should happen again then he said he will be asking the police to press charges as I really don't need this at the moment or anytime. Will this woman never learn how many times will it take for her to learn or is she really that unintelligent...

Anyway I have more things to worry about atm than this silly woman! but I just can't stop crying at the moment I just do not know how much I can take tbh.

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This is a person who should mind her own business, Weenie, I would stay clear of her,

[weenie]

Yes the dash cam footage really helped along with the offer of CCTV the best money we have spent by far and to think that we thought these would be used to prove a crime never thinking it would prove no crime has been committed. Our neighbour knows that there is CCTV as she also complained about this when it was getting fitted something about her right for privacy whereas our other neighbours were delighted as one of the camera's covers there driveway so the way they see it is they have CCTV with no expense to them. Our cameras only film our back garden, front garden and our driveway the camera just under the back eave captures the driveway from the back overlooks our other neighbours driveway and like I have said they are more than delighted with there cars being filmed.

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Originally Posted by nashville

This is a person who should mind her own business, Weenie, I would stay clear of her,

We do nash but she seems obsessed with my household last year she said at a chance meeting at the bank Happy New Year then in the same breathe I'm going to get you this year It is pretty obvious that she thought at last she had something on us but we don't do anything if boring people were a crime then she could have us convicted LOL as honestly we are the most boring people in the world last week when the police came it was at 11 minutes after 9 and I was in my Pyjamas just about to go to bed.

[SnoopZ]

I thought she was moving?

[nashville]

Originally Posted by weenie

Yes the dash cam footage really helped along with the offer of CCTV the best money we have spent by far and to think that we thought these would be used to prove a crime never thinking it would prove no crime has been committed. Our neighbour knows that there is CCTV as she also complained about this when it was getting fitted something about her right for privacy whereas our other neighbours were delighted as one of the camera's covers there driveway so the way they see it is they have CCTV with no expense to them. Our cameras only film our back garden, front garden and our driveway the camera just under the back eave captures the driveway from the back overlooks our other neighbours driveway and like I have said they are more than delighted with there cars being filmed.

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We do nash but she seems obsessed with my household last year she said at a chance meeting at the bank Happy New Year then in the same breathe I'm going to get you this year It is pretty obvious that she thought at last she had something on us but we don't do anything if boring people were a crime then she could have us convicted LOL as honestly we are the most boring people in the world last week when the police came it was at 11 minutes after 9 and I was in my Pyjamas just about to go to bed.

Take Care Weenie

Having to re-plan part of our Californian trip next month, as around 50-60 miles of the Pacific Coast Highway has been cut off by landslides.

We will probably just take the 101 from Carmel to Cambria, rather than our previous plan to follow the PCH (missing out on a lot of marvellous scenery).

[weenie]

Originally Posted by SnoopZ

I thought she was moving?

Nope but I wish for that everyday SnoopZ, the trouble we both have is that we would need to declare our dispute over land etc along with the court case. I would need to declare that she has a interdict against her and that she not only has CCJ but is also known for her antisocial behaviour then there is the fact that her insurance company felt the need to give her a reservation of rights letter so therefore it would be very difficult for her to be able to get buildings insurance. I know I would run away from the sale no matter how much I loved the house and that is why my hubby and I have fitted a new kitchen and done up the house as we ain't going anywhere till we be guaranteed full market value of our home.

Anyway we will be here far longer than her anyway

[TheDaddy]

Originally Posted by weenie

When will my neighbour learn that we don't break the law and we just want left alone!

Last Wednesday evening hubby allowed our son to reverse his car up our driveway while he was moving mine. Long story short we had a visit from the police stating that they had received a call saying that we were allowing our son who is 15 to drive on a public highway but were not willing to say who reported the incident. My eldest son took over as he is doing law and explained that our neighbour has a interdict against her, he showed them the dashcam footage in where they said that they were happy that no crime had been committed as this was clearly on private land, he also offered to them CCTV footage which they said was no need as they were satisfied that no crime had taken place. My eldest son said that he suspected that it was our neighbour who reported his brother and if his suspicion was correct would they please have a word with her as she knows this was private land due to the court case as both parties were in receipt of the surveys and he suggested the only crime that has been committed in his opinion was was by our neighbour and since he has given proof of our court case with our neighbour along with showing video footage, if his suspicion is correct and that she was the one who reported this incident surely this can be classed as wasteful employment of police time by knowingly making a false report since she knew this was our private property and not a public highway. When my son mentioned our neighbour again the police said so you have a disgruntled neighbour and my son said well you could say that but I can understand being upset at losing a court case and having to pay all costs but just because you have a interdict preventing you from harassing my parents that does not give you the right to use Police Scotland for harassment.

The police have since been at my neighbours house I can only hope that if it was her who reported my youngest son they take my eldest sons advice and explain to her about wasting police time and more importantly that she was the only one who committed a crime as she knew without doubt that this was private land as she has a copy of the land register (title deeds)

I think this proves our suspicion that this was once again my delightful neighbour trying to cause upset to us. I have asked my son if the police will now tell us if it was her that reported his brother and he said no but he is keeping a file just in case this should happen again then he said he will be asking the police to press charges as I really don't need this at the moment or anytime. Will this woman never learn how many times will it take for her to learn or is she really that unintelligent...

Anyway I have more things to worry about atm than this silly woman! but I just can't stop crying at the moment I just do not know how much I can take tbh.

It's hard to ignore her when she gets the police involved, at least if she tries it again there will already be a record on file of her false allegations, she might even end up being arrested with luck, until then don't give her the head space, it's obviously what she wants

[weenie]

It is very hard TD but I can assure everyone that we are not the sort of family to play her games as I think she would love nothing more than a game of tit-for-tat. I admit I have in the past wanted to ask what is her problem but I suspect that would have her dancing with utter glee cos then she would know what she is doing is bothering us. What really bothers me is the fact she continues with such malice and childish behaviour towards us even after the talking too she received from the Judge as his exact words to her were Mrs XXXX it is my opinion that your a social nuisance who thinks it is alright to cause nuisance or annoyance to your neighbours, Mrs XXXX you ignored all advice from both legal teams as well as your insurance company Mrs XXXX you even declined the offer of mediation when your neighbours (us) contacted the council. Mrs XXXX this is unacceptable behaviour and on the proof I have before me I have no option but to grant a interdict against you and order you pay all costs.

[Osem]

@ Weenie - There are some people you just can't reason with and sadly your neighbour is one such. The thing to do is remember that every minute you spend fretting about her antics is a minute you'll never have again and a minute she'd be delighted to have ruined for you. It's far better that you do what you do, post here, let off steam as you do then move on because in that way you are minimising the negative effect she has on your life and your family.

[Hom3r]

Weenie what is a interdict?

We are lucky with our neighbours either side were retired and we got alone, sadly late 2014 one died and his wife shortly after.

A couple moved in with young kids moved in and at least one has ADHD, but they are no problem, a little noisy but they are kids.

The other side is a woman who has schizophrenia, but again shes OK.

My worst neighbour is a woman two doors away who cannot park her small car (smallest Hyundai) in the space vacated by a large people carrier, the other week she was touching my dad rear bumper.

[dilli-theclaw]

Tomorrow I get to see if I can go back on the transplant list (if I'm well enough) fingers crossed

[Osem]

Originally Posted by Hom3r

Weenie what is a interdict?

It's a court order.

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Originally Posted by dilli-theclaw

Tomorrow I get to see if I can go back on the transplant list (if I'm well enough) fingers crossed

Yes, toes too mate. I'm sure everyone here* will be rooting for you.


* 'tools' excepted...

[denphone]

Originally Posted by dilli-theclaw

Tomorrow I get to see if I can go back on the transplant list (if I'm well enough) fingers crossed

Good luck dilli as l have my fingers crossed for you.

[TheDaddy]

Originally Posted by Hom3r

Weenie what is a interdict?

Some sort of restraining order or banning order maybe iirc

Originally Posted by dilli-theclaw

Tomorrow I get to see if I can go back on the transplant list (if I'm well enough) fingers crossed

Good luck matey